Girlfriend

The Proven Plan

Now here's where you succeed or fail, so listen carefully! To tie all this together you're going to need to get hold of the complete plan. These are powerful techniques, but on their own you will struggle to make them work.

Don't Act Like A Victim

Once your girlfriend leaves don't spiral into victim behavior. I know it's tough and all you want is to get her back, but the one thing that will drive her further away is if you start calling her,begging her to take you back and trying to see her. Instead wish her well and go No Contact, or "NC" as we experts call it, on her. Tough, I know, but you have to let her go. Let her see you're mature and you've accepted her decision to leave.

Make Yourself Desirable

Make sure you're someone your ex girlfriend HAS to come back to. Get this step right and your ex girlfriend can't help but come back to you.

So make sure you're not sitting home feeling sorry for yourself and obsessing about her. You must get out and have some fun. What this does is to keep you busy and keeps your self-esteem high. Your confidence gets boosted and before you know it the time is passing.

Here's the psychological trick: your ex girlfriend will start to wonder what's going on! She will have expected you to pursue her and try winning her back with meals and flowers, but you've done none of that and now the questions begin in her mind. Once she starts wondering, you're on the road to getting her back.